My best friend always call me every time to know how I'm doing, he help me always and always listen to me, we hug and kiss most times, I'm really confused_are we just friends?. _Mary ( London).
Some of us might have similar experience with Mary,sometimes you don't just know if you will call it a relationship or a friendship especially when he or she hold you in highest esteem, he or she will always call and text you even make you laugh when you're angry and sometimes you think well I'm just your friend.
Different people react differently especially when it comes to the way we treat them, if I'm a guy and I always feel the need of a female friend emotionally that means I'm doing what are boyfriend supposed to do especially if she's not dating.
She might not even see the need of dating because you always feel that vacuum in a heart, so most times she never feel lonely emotionally, in her heart we are just friend and in your heart you just wish you could tell her how much you love her and that you have started to get feelings for her.
We regularly hug each other and we kiss, we hold hands in public and most people thinks she's my girlfriend or I'm her boyfriend,they never knew that we are just best friend but I'm beginning to have feelings for her or I'm beginning to have feelings for him,I don't want to ruin my friendship with him or her. should I tell him or should I tell her that I have feelings for him/her??
continue reading and find what practical step you should do when you have this kind feeling.
don't worry this happens daily and when this happen don't panic we are here to help you.
What to do
1. Man up
Most People think that it's weird to tell their best friend that you love him or her,that's one thing you should guard against, always man up. If you have a romantic feeling for your best friend never hide it especially if she is not in a relationship, just walk up to her. You will be surprised to hear the response she might even says oh what took you so long, I thought you will never ask me out.
Although it might not be all positive,some might refuse and keep u as their friend.
never think you will loose your best friend if you ask him/her out on a date.
2. Don't rush
Never Rush, do not rush things with him or her, granted you guys might be friends for years, months or few weeks,but you don't mistake friendship with relationship so even when you ask her out or you want to ask him out give him a enough time to think about ,don't get angry at first when she refuse maybe she just want to be sure of what you are saying. Never be too quick to ask for sex that's not a cool sign, she might even think you are asking her out because you want to have sex with her, so don't rush and allow it happens naturally.
3. Take charge
Girls like guys that take charge so always take charge,one way to do it is pay for her drink, pay for her cab,when you take her out,make her feel comfortable.
keep your mobile device at the corner, never allow your mobile device to be a distraction when you are communicating with her,do the little things for her like opening the door when she comes down from the car, when she want to enter a restaurant,send her beautiful goodnight messages and also in the morning send a nice and beautiful text messages to make her feel more love from you, at that instant she might turn around and give you a chance to show how much you love her .
No doubt,when you do this above mentioned points,he or she will definitely fall for you and the two best friends will then now be called two best lovers
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